I'm sure many people wonder why I write so much about religion and sexuality (specifically the intersection of the two). There are many reasons. The most significant is that it is a personal issue for me. I grew up in a religious home where my sexuality was taboo. I was taught from a young age that to feel the way I do about other males is inherently wrong. I have overcome these feelings of self-loathing and I feel that I have a much healthier outlook on myself and on life, but I would be naive to assume that there are no lasting scars from my many years as a homophobe. I see so many people object to being called bigots. I really do, and here's an article I read that I believe does a very good job addressing just that phenomenon. I was bigoted when I was a Mormon. I believed, as the church taught, that homosexuality and gay marriage were sinful. I opposed marriage equality. I believed it was ridiculous that people were trying to m...
Life is what you make of it.